The #1 Texting Tip To Successful Flirting
Life and Society - Dating
Written by Tyler Tray   
Tuesday, 16 September 2008 08:16
There's not much of a difference between flirting through text messaging and flirting in real life... except for flirting in text messaging is a lot easier.
by TylerTray


There's not much of a difference between flirting through text messaging and flirting in real life... except for flirting in text messaging is a lot easier.

Women

Most people will say that women have it easy when it comes to texting. That's because men do the approaching... and women probably send 100 times more text messages than men which makes women better at communicating.

This does not necessarily mean women are good at texting. In fact, women goof up pretty bad in some areas. One area women really mess up in is when they send boring one-liners. For example, lets say a guy sends a message like, "That was a crazy concert last night, how did you like it?" About 50 percent of the time the woman is going to respond with some boring one-liner that has no question attached to it like, "it was good" or "good." Some women think this is playing "hard to get" when really they are playing "boring to interact with so move on." In the big picture, a lot of these women are ruining their chances and they have no idea they are doing it. Now let's go back and give a flirty response that men can work with... for example: "Ya I loved it, you will have to try to keep up with me next time :)" As you can see there is a pull to respond back and most importantly, it's FLIRTING!

Men

As in real life, women and men differ when it comes to text messaging. So guess who does the approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and then we initiate the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have concluded that most men have no clue about how to text women.

As in real life, women and men differ when it comes to text messaging. So guess who does the approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and then we initiate the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have concluded that most men have no clue about how to text women.

Here's the best way to fix the problem, start sending messages that make women feel something. Let's take a boring line above and plug a little feeling into it: "Hey you, I was just in class and the teacher there reminded me of you, except she is a little cuter." Or instead of asking what they are doing, try texting, "Hey we are having a barbecue later on today, I think I can fit in one more space for you, you in?"

We all watch movies because they make us feel something, and women especially, are not involved in anything unless their emotions are in it. You will have more and more of the women you desire when you start figuring how to implement these tips into your text messages.

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